Was chatting wif my driving instructor yest... he was tellin me one of her student, a gal(my age somemore) very open minded... alwis chat wif him bout sex, how she go around finding foreigners for one nite stand etc. Haiz, what happen to the old traditional morals of asian...? We were lamenting bout the loss of morals cos of the influx of 'open-ideas' from the western culture... Maybe thats why i often see regular clubbers in a bad light (no doubt nt all people are like this) I feel intimacy shud only be wif someone u love, nt a game which u play as leisure. I'm still kind of conversative n rigid in my values haha =x
Few days ago, one of my fren confided in me bout his problem... He is going out wif a gal frequently. And the gal does like him n want him to be her bf. But my fren is unsure of his feelings for her.. plus they have some differences between them n dunno whether it will work out... I told him to think carefully b4 decidin on anything, n he agreed. Mins ago... he told me he is in a lost. He hold her hands, kissed her... n now he still dunno if she is the one... I immediately scold him back... So he did all that cos of lust? or jus playin wif the feelings of the gal...? I was pretty much pissed off... How can anyhow jus do all these things when he nt even sure? I feel the gal will be terribly hurt by his irresponsible acts... I'm a traditional person... things like hold hands, hugging n kissing shud come naturally if u really love someone n nt cos of lust or jus for fun ba~ Maybe some of you out there may disagree wif me =x
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Tuesday, May 30
Was chatting wif my driving instructor yest... he was tellin me one of her student, a gal(my age somemore) very open minded... alwis chat wif him bout sex, how she go around finding foreigners for one nite stand etc. Haiz, what happen to the old traditional morals of asian...? We were lamenting bout the loss of morals cos of the influx of 'open-ideas' from the western culture... Maybe thats why i often see regular clubbers in a bad light (no doubt nt all people are like this) I feel intimacy shud only be wif someone u love, nt a game which u play as leisure. I'm still kind of conversative n rigid in my values haha =x
Few days ago, one of my fren confided in me bout his problem... He is going out wif a gal frequently. And the gal does like him n want him to be her bf. But my fren is unsure of his feelings for her.. plus they have some differences between them n dunno whether it will work out... I told him to think carefully b4 decidin on anything, n he agreed. Mins ago... he told me he is in a lost. He hold her hands, kissed her... n now he still dunno if she is the one... I immediately scold him back... So he did all that cos of lust? or jus playin wif the feelings of the gal...? I was pretty much pissed off... How can anyhow jus do all these things when he nt even sure? I feel the gal will be terribly hurt by his irresponsible acts... I'm a traditional person... things like hold hands, hugging n kissing shud come naturally if u really love someone n nt cos of lust or jus for fun ba~ Maybe some of you out there may disagree wif me =x
