Taken from ravi blog... it was originally bout how many pts does a bf get for doing de following things. i try to see it another way, from a guy view (how many pts he can get for doing dat thing for his gf).it is to see de diff between mars n venus =x see do u agree ma? haha
SIMPLE DUTIES You make the bed (+5) *neat is important* You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (-5) You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-5) You go out to buy her what she wants (+10) In the rain (+15) But return with Beer (0) You check out a suspicious noise at night (0) You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (-20) *she feel u over suspicious, disturbed her slp* You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+25) You pummel it with iron rod (+10) It’s her pet (-1000000) *i'm dead..*
You cook for her (+50) *anything also nice* Its her favourite dish (+100) Its your favourite dish (0) *nt a picky gf ^^* And its some fatty oily stuff like pig’s trotters (-5000) *she wun touch it* And she’s a health freak or vegetarian (-20000)
You wash the dishes (+5) You mop the floor (+10) You do the laundry (+20) *she dun do these.. she will appreciate lots =x*
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (+10) You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-20) Named Lolita (-50) Lolita is a dancer (-60) Lolita is single and is really beautiful (-70) *however de pts does nt applies to yingz.. she may add pts instead =x*
HER BIRTHDAY (NOTE: ANNIVESARIES ARE SAME AS BIRTHDAYS)
You forget her birthday (-500000) *unpardonable* You take her out to dinner (0) You take her out to dinner and it’s not a sports bar (0) Okay, it’s a sports bar (-20) *i nver been to one... maybe she love it too?* And it’s all-you-can-eat night (-20) It’s a sports bar, it’s all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the Colours of your favourite team (-100) *soccer? gals will be bored...*
You are the first to wish her happy birthday (0) You are not the first to wish her happy birthday (-20) You get her a present (+5) Its something that she needs and can be used (+10) Its something she has been eyeing a long time ago (+100) Its a white elephant of no use (eg. Picture frames, ornamentals, musical boxes, cups) (+10)
You give her a bouquet of flowers (+30) *flowers are good presents* Its 999 stalk of her favourite flower (+50) Its crysenthumun (-5000) *can make tea* You plan a surprise for her (+50) points subjected to the surprise
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+15) *movies r great* You take her to a movie she likes (+10) You take her to a movie you hate (+15) You take her to a movie you like (+5) It’s called ‘DeathCop’ (+15) *she love action* You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-150) You take her to a movie she likes and you hate and you fell asleep in the movie (-2000) You brought a jacket along in case she is cold (+10) You buy the tickets before hand so that you two don’t have to queue to buy the tickets (+5) You cry during the touching part of the movie (+0.01) woman likes SNAG now!! *nt her*
You hold the door for her (+1) You pull the chair for her (+1) You waited 15 mins for her to arrive without getting pissed (0) You waited 30 mins for her to arrive without getting pissed (+5) You waited 1 hour for her to arrive without getting pissed (+15) You waited 2 hours for her to arrive without getting pissed (+25) *hope it wun happen* She waited for you 5 mins to arrive (-10)
ENJOY THE ‘BIG’ QUESTION (YOU LOSE POINTS NO MATTER WHAT)
She asks, “Do I look fat?” (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT] You hesitate in responding (-20)You reply, “Where?” (-5) *i answer this b4 =x* Any other response (-20) You say: its ok, I love you even if you are fat (-500)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (+5) You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50) You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+100) She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
Now what chance do you have??? You listen for 5 minutes and interrupt her with your own problems (-100) You roll your eyes and ask: whats the problem?? (-100) You offer advices and tell her what she should do (-200) You bring her out for an all expenses shopping trip to cheer her up AFTER you listen to her problem with a concerned expression, for as long as she speaks without falling asleep (+5000)
do u agree? leaving for hanoi tomolo ^^
1:13 pm
Sunday, June 24
Yest afternoon went to the Central... i think it is one of the dizziest carpark around... sit in car also dizzy till -.- at the 8th floor den got space.. on a sat afternoon only... imagine weekend evening... me n my siblings + sis in law make up de crew (cos my parents dun like jap food nor window shoppin =x)
we saw a ramen shop..very tempting... but de queue is so long so no choice lo, have to go to another shop which turns out abit overpriced n the food okay nia... the scenery is gd though.. facing clarke quay ^^ there are many restaurant around there... really alot...spoilt for choice... we even eat de azaubu *dunno how to spell* ice cream... marina sq also have.. but here is only de bar. basement has a jap mini shoppin market.. where my bro bought a dragonball tikam figurine there =x
de shoppin area is full of clothes, bags n shoes.. haven for many ladies i guess. many unique shops too ^^ dats one shop sellin very interesting cards n boxes etc. de products r so so so cute.
tomorrow celebrating my parents bday... da chi da he again ...haiz ~ =x
*counting down to hanoi... 2 more days*
1:29 am
Wednesday, June 20
For the past 2 days it had been a really packed schedule, almost from morn to nite, non-stop action haha. Me n yingz went to pulau ubin.. it was my 2nd time while it was her first. the mosquito there are really commando de.. so many -_-"
the slope at ubin are so so steep.. it is really a heavy workout after 5hrs of cycling. we needed to rest a while and drink coconut n eat durian b4 we restore our energy for the second half =x
it was really really fun, enjoyin de scenery and looking at the greens
i also ate ajisan ramen on her recommendation .. that was my first time *blushed* den we shop together at NTUC in preparation for the second day's breakfast at my home ^^
i woke up at 8am to fetch yingz to my home.. cos only in the morn nobody at home.. so we can have the whole kitchen by ourselves ^^ though its really simple fare.. but it was really fun ^^ a sense of accomplishment too
we watched yang cheng ling's movie spider lilies together... the story a bit slow... =x saw her play grand theft auto n murdering many people =x while i demonstrated there are many ways to commit suicide =x *i dun have potential to be a bad guy =x*
we went to heartland toa payoh to walk around... she din really have the chance to walk there.. we ended up eating mac.. n de seaweed fries which were abit unique...
12:46 pm
Sunday, June 17
Yest i organized an outing for fellow KT mates to settlers, been quite a long time since our last visit. It was really fun, although much much less violent den normal =x
but b4 dat me n yingz went to exchange her dad's shirt.. she cant estimate other people sizes.. but she also want to change a pants we bought together.. she felt its too loose... *yuan lai her own size she also cant estimate =x*
we wanted to try muthu curry... but it off the light.. we tot closed.. but when we look went into another restaurant it opened T.T this 'another restaurant' food quite nice but quite ex... the nachos is so so so enormous...
at the settlers.. i personally felt all games are fun.. except the first one.. cos i keep losing T.T too engrossed n din notice so many people quietly plotting le ... the hands game n the last game of giving presents is quite unique... fun ^^ while its fun to see those people almost cracking their palm..the giving presents can really help to know one better...
--------added cos yingz complain my entry too short =x
planned to go for makan but nobody is hungry anyway...after surviving the enormous downpour we have to go on to our separate ways.. i'm glad that everyone seem to enjoyed ^^ jus b4 12 midnight.. i'm lucky enuff to catch a last bus home ^^ save lots of money.. but i had to really sprint across the road *even across the bus i catchin =x*
today had a relaxed day until my second uncle came by to bombard me n my sis wif many computer knowledge... like how to convert videos.. n rip music =x somehow i think my this uncle is so versatile.. award winning photographer + taxi driver + now chinese physician... he know tui na, acupunture, massage etc.. now even learning tai ji!!
in the evening we went to toapayoh to eat cos there is a shop which sells toiletries at very gd price...*i jus went toiletries shoppin a few days ago wif yingz.. the price so diff T.T* BUT we realise parkway also have this shop... go so far yet there is one nearby onli ... -_-"
we bought durian!! but everyone is so full that we din open it =x
pulau ubin excursion tomorrow *excited* its only my second time going in this lifetime...
*total 402 words: my entry longer den hers le ^^*
12:22 pm
Tuesday, June 12
Yest me n yingz went marina sq... but we dunno wat to eat... being inspired by ravi's blog, yingz suggested cafe cartel...
cafe cartel de seats so uncomfortable.. we changed so many seats but still dun like =x so pai sei to change again.. den the layout of the menu is so messy, see liao giddy sia... so in the end we sneaked out of the restaurant =x cos we too paisei to say sorry we nt eatin le =x it was so exciting =x
we went to dian xiao er instead... the duck is so fabulous.. the soup also.. but the veg dunno simi lai de.. so weird =x
we watched oceans 13, its a nice show. full of wits and laughter ^^ yingz keep singing "我要睡觉" on the way home =x hahahaa
love this song! so nice ^^ its written by s.h.e themselves, enjoy ^^
A couple who love each other dearly... have to face this problem one day. Different people have different perception towards it... no one is able to keep splurging n splurging whether on ur other half or urself. One have to look to the future... in case of emergency also.
Personally cos of my 3rd n 4th yr in uni no pay.. i need to save a considerable amt so that i wun have to eat grass =x i eat grass.. my gf even more chan =x
In my opinion. even gals need to save nowadays.. it is quite hard for a guy to carry the burden of creating a home...i feel its a team effort. If now keep spending den one day no more money to spend, its stupidity. one wun want to see his/her half go broke just to show concern riet?
Thrifty is a mei de.. but nt stingy... ^^
8:31 pm
Yest planned to go JB de.. but yingz forgot to bring her passport -_-" how blur!!! =x so instead we went to orchard to shop ^^ its really fun !! But i have to wear a shirt with the colour of Shrek.. so ugly T.T *she even took a photo n made it her phone's wallpaper ... *complicated feelings*
we watched a french movie, indecent. Its really nice and funny! somethings to ponder too.. for example the guy after first interaction wif the female lead, he was so mesmerized that he willingly spend his entire spending on her even though he know she dun love him... folly or bravery? u decide ~
i also got my results... so sucky!!! my GPA is exactly same as last sem... all Bs ... no As or Cs... dunno shud be happy ma -_-" but i disappointed.. cos i expect at least a- or b+... esp my avg assignment grades are a- n b+ T.T
9:31 am
Sunday, June 3
This week has been a week of many downs and with a few ups... a life without another half seems stable but somehow bland... with another half seems exciting but at the same time can be so draining...
Many things happen within this week... someone on the verge of breaking up, someone broke up quietly, even someone crying cos she miss someone... Love is so hard to fathom.. a fren who i think has one of the best attributes of a good bf is still not good enuff to match the expectation of his gf... 4 yrs plus of tender love jus go down the drain despite the many milestones they conquered together... *sad* but wat he said is true.. why waste each other's time when no future can be seen? Sometimes breaking up can be a good thing for a couple who do not love each other... actually i think being missed terribly by ur significant half is a good feelin.. cos u feel u r needed n wanted ^^
sad things came one after another... i'm not one who get out quickly but nor am i one who dwells n dwells.. but i definitely very poor at consoling... feel severely limited... how i hope i can do more... haiz...
meeting setbacks in life also provides us with learning experiences...
12:49 pm
Monday, June 25
Taken from ravi blog... it was originally bout how many pts does a bf get for doing de following things. i try to see it another way, from a guy view (how many pts he can get for doing dat thing for his gf).it is to see de diff between mars n venus =x see do u agree ma? haha
SIMPLE DUTIES You make the bed (+5) *neat is important* You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (-5) You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-5) You go out to buy her what she wants (+10) In the rain (+15) But return with Beer (0) You check out a suspicious noise at night (0) You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (-20) *she feel u over suspicious, disturbed her slp* You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+25) You pummel it with iron rod (+10) It’s her pet (-1000000) *i'm dead..*
You cook for her (+50) *anything also nice* Its her favourite dish (+100) Its your favourite dish (0) *nt a picky gf ^^* And its some fatty oily stuff like pig’s trotters (-5000) *she wun touch it* And she’s a health freak or vegetarian (-20000)
You wash the dishes (+5) You mop the floor (+10) You do the laundry (+20) *she dun do these.. she will appreciate lots =x*
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (+10) You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-20) Named Lolita (-50) Lolita is a dancer (-60) Lolita is single and is really beautiful (-70) *however de pts does nt applies to yingz.. she may add pts instead =x*
HER BIRTHDAY (NOTE: ANNIVESARIES ARE SAME AS BIRTHDAYS)
You forget her birthday (-500000) *unpardonable* You take her out to dinner (0) You take her out to dinner and it’s not a sports bar (0) Okay, it’s a sports bar (-20) *i nver been to one... maybe she love it too?* And it’s all-you-can-eat night (-20) It’s a sports bar, it’s all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the Colours of your favourite team (-100) *soccer? gals will be bored...*
You are the first to wish her happy birthday (0) You are not the first to wish her happy birthday (-20) You get her a present (+5) Its something that she needs and can be used (+10) Its something she has been eyeing a long time ago (+100) Its a white elephant of no use (eg. Picture frames, ornamentals, musical boxes, cups) (+10)
You give her a bouquet of flowers (+30) *flowers are good presents* Its 999 stalk of her favourite flower (+50) Its crysenthumun (-5000) *can make tea* You plan a surprise for her (+50) points subjected to the surprise
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+15) *movies r great* You take her to a movie she likes (+10) You take her to a movie you hate (+15) You take her to a movie you like (+5) It’s called ‘DeathCop’ (+15) *she love action* You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-150) You take her to a movie she likes and you hate and you fell asleep in the movie (-2000) You brought a jacket along in case she is cold (+10) You buy the tickets before hand so that you two don’t have to queue to buy the tickets (+5) You cry during the touching part of the movie (+0.01) woman likes SNAG now!! *nt her*
You hold the door for her (+1) You pull the chair for her (+1) You waited 15 mins for her to arrive without getting pissed (0) You waited 30 mins for her to arrive without getting pissed (+5) You waited 1 hour for her to arrive without getting pissed (+15) You waited 2 hours for her to arrive without getting pissed (+25) *hope it wun happen* She waited for you 5 mins to arrive (-10)
ENJOY THE ‘BIG’ QUESTION (YOU LOSE POINTS NO MATTER WHAT)
She asks, “Do I look fat?” (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT] You hesitate in responding (-20)You reply, “Where?” (-5) *i answer this b4 =x* Any other response (-20) You say: its ok, I love you even if you are fat (-500)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (+5) You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50) You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+100) She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
Now what chance do you have??? You listen for 5 minutes and interrupt her with your own problems (-100) You roll your eyes and ask: whats the problem?? (-100) You offer advices and tell her what she should do (-200) You bring her out for an all expenses shopping trip to cheer her up AFTER you listen to her problem with a concerned expression, for as long as she speaks without falling asleep (+5000)
do u agree? leaving for hanoi tomolo ^^
1:13 pm
Sunday, June 24
Yest afternoon went to the Central... i think it is one of the dizziest carpark around... sit in car also dizzy till -.- at the 8th floor den got space.. on a sat afternoon only... imagine weekend evening... me n my siblings + sis in law make up de crew (cos my parents dun like jap food nor window shoppin =x)
we saw a ramen shop..very tempting... but de queue is so long so no choice lo, have to go to another shop which turns out abit overpriced n the food okay nia... the scenery is gd though.. facing clarke quay ^^ there are many restaurant around there... really alot...spoilt for choice... we even eat de azaubu *dunno how to spell* ice cream... marina sq also have.. but here is only de bar. basement has a jap mini shoppin market.. where my bro bought a dragonball tikam figurine there =x
de shoppin area is full of clothes, bags n shoes.. haven for many ladies i guess. many unique shops too ^^ dats one shop sellin very interesting cards n boxes etc. de products r so so so cute.
tomorrow celebrating my parents bday... da chi da he again ...haiz ~ =x
*counting down to hanoi... 2 more days*
1:29 am
Wednesday, June 20
For the past 2 days it had been a really packed schedule, almost from morn to nite, non-stop action haha. Me n yingz went to pulau ubin.. it was my 2nd time while it was her first. the mosquito there are really commando de.. so many -_-"
the slope at ubin are so so steep.. it is really a heavy workout after 5hrs of cycling. we needed to rest a while and drink coconut n eat durian b4 we restore our energy for the second half =x
it was really really fun, enjoyin de scenery and looking at the greens
i also ate ajisan ramen on her recommendation .. that was my first time *blushed* den we shop together at NTUC in preparation for the second day's breakfast at my home ^^
i woke up at 8am to fetch yingz to my home.. cos only in the morn nobody at home.. so we can have the whole kitchen by ourselves ^^ though its really simple fare.. but it was really fun ^^ a sense of accomplishment too
we watched yang cheng ling's movie spider lilies together... the story a bit slow... =x saw her play grand theft auto n murdering many people =x while i demonstrated there are many ways to commit suicide =x *i dun have potential to be a bad guy =x*
we went to heartland toa payoh to walk around... she din really have the chance to walk there.. we ended up eating mac.. n de seaweed fries which were abit unique...
12:46 pm
Sunday, June 17
Yest i organized an outing for fellow KT mates to settlers, been quite a long time since our last visit. It was really fun, although much much less violent den normal =x
but b4 dat me n yingz went to exchange her dad's shirt.. she cant estimate other people sizes.. but she also want to change a pants we bought together.. she felt its too loose... *yuan lai her own size she also cant estimate =x*
we wanted to try muthu curry... but it off the light.. we tot closed.. but when we look went into another restaurant it opened T.T this 'another restaurant' food quite nice but quite ex... the nachos is so so so enormous...
at the settlers.. i personally felt all games are fun.. except the first one.. cos i keep losing T.T too engrossed n din notice so many people quietly plotting le ... the hands game n the last game of giving presents is quite unique... fun ^^ while its fun to see those people almost cracking their palm..the giving presents can really help to know one better...
--------added cos yingz complain my entry too short =x
planned to go for makan but nobody is hungry anyway...after surviving the enormous downpour we have to go on to our separate ways.. i'm glad that everyone seem to enjoyed ^^ jus b4 12 midnight.. i'm lucky enuff to catch a last bus home ^^ save lots of money.. but i had to really sprint across the road *even across the bus i catchin =x*
today had a relaxed day until my second uncle came by to bombard me n my sis wif many computer knowledge... like how to convert videos.. n rip music =x somehow i think my this uncle is so versatile.. award winning photographer + taxi driver + now chinese physician... he know tui na, acupunture, massage etc.. now even learning tai ji!!
in the evening we went to toapayoh to eat cos there is a shop which sells toiletries at very gd price...*i jus went toiletries shoppin a few days ago wif yingz.. the price so diff T.T* BUT we realise parkway also have this shop... go so far yet there is one nearby onli ... -_-"
we bought durian!! but everyone is so full that we din open it =x
pulau ubin excursion tomorrow *excited* its only my second time going in this lifetime...
*total 402 words: my entry longer den hers le ^^*
12:22 pm
Tuesday, June 12
Yest me n yingz went marina sq... but we dunno wat to eat... being inspired by ravi's blog, yingz suggested cafe cartel...
cafe cartel de seats so uncomfortable.. we changed so many seats but still dun like =x so pai sei to change again.. den the layout of the menu is so messy, see liao giddy sia... so in the end we sneaked out of the restaurant =x cos we too paisei to say sorry we nt eatin le =x it was so exciting =x
we went to dian xiao er instead... the duck is so fabulous.. the soup also.. but the veg dunno simi lai de.. so weird =x
we watched oceans 13, its a nice show. full of wits and laughter ^^ yingz keep singing "我要睡觉" on the way home =x hahahaa
love this song! so nice ^^ its written by s.h.e themselves, enjoy ^^
A couple who love each other dearly... have to face this problem one day. Different people have different perception towards it... no one is able to keep splurging n splurging whether on ur other half or urself. One have to look to the future... in case of emergency also.
Personally cos of my 3rd n 4th yr in uni no pay.. i need to save a considerable amt so that i wun have to eat grass =x i eat grass.. my gf even more chan =x
In my opinion. even gals need to save nowadays.. it is quite hard for a guy to carry the burden of creating a home...i feel its a team effort. If now keep spending den one day no more money to spend, its stupidity. one wun want to see his/her half go broke just to show concern riet?
Thrifty is a mei de.. but nt stingy... ^^
8:31 pm
Yest planned to go JB de.. but yingz forgot to bring her passport -_-" how blur!!! =x so instead we went to orchard to shop ^^ its really fun !! But i have to wear a shirt with the colour of Shrek.. so ugly T.T *she even took a photo n made it her phone's wallpaper ... *complicated feelings*
we watched a french movie, indecent. Its really nice and funny! somethings to ponder too.. for example the guy after first interaction wif the female lead, he was so mesmerized that he willingly spend his entire spending on her even though he know she dun love him... folly or bravery? u decide ~
i also got my results... so sucky!!! my GPA is exactly same as last sem... all Bs ... no As or Cs... dunno shud be happy ma -_-" but i disappointed.. cos i expect at least a- or b+... esp my avg assignment grades are a- n b+ T.T
9:31 am
Sunday, June 3
This week has been a week of many downs and with a few ups... a life without another half seems stable but somehow bland... with another half seems exciting but at the same time can be so draining...
Many things happen within this week... someone on the verge of breaking up, someone broke up quietly, even someone crying cos she miss someone... Love is so hard to fathom.. a fren who i think has one of the best attributes of a good bf is still not good enuff to match the expectation of his gf... 4 yrs plus of tender love jus go down the drain despite the many milestones they conquered together... *sad* but wat he said is true.. why waste each other's time when no future can be seen? Sometimes breaking up can be a good thing for a couple who do not love each other... actually i think being missed terribly by ur significant half is a good feelin.. cos u feel u r needed n wanted ^^
sad things came one after another... i'm not one who get out quickly but nor am i one who dwells n dwells.. but i definitely very poor at consoling... feel severely limited... how i hope i can do more... haiz...
meeting setbacks in life also provides us with learning experiences...